PALS Mission is to create a community of seniors who look out for each other by informing and educating LGBTQ+ people and allies on all aspects of planning ahead before health or life-altering situations arise.
PALS accomplishes its mission by offering informational and educational programs year-round that include no cost seminars, workshops, resource materials and special events both in-person and online.
PALS Alert
PALS is sharing three timely publications with you:
- Equality California has just published the LGBTQ+ Housing Report
- SAGE and the Human Rights Campaign have put together an excellent guide titled ‘Facing the Future Together.’
- For transgender, gender expansive, intersex people and their allies, the Fact Sheet published by California LGBTQ+, Civil Rights, and Health Care Advocates informs about Your Rights in California in Response to Recent Executive Orders.
PALS 2026 Seminars and Events*
All seminars are at The Center, Room 3, 9:30 – 11am
The Legacy that got Explosively delayed…
Saturday, February 21
What matters to you the most and how do you want to be remembered? Is your life just a sum total of your property, possessions, last Will and Testament? Or would you rather be known for your achievements and the contributions you’ve made to impact future generations of LGBTQ+ champions, activists and influencers?
If so, then don’t miss joining PALS for this enlightening and informative seminar, exploring the LGBTQ+ movement’s rich heritage and the key steps we each can take to create a legacy that uplifts our community for years to come.
Please register to attend this seminar in-person here, or join us via Zoom.
Please note that the parking garage underneath The Center will not be available on the day of our seminar!
Upcoming Seminars*
Legal/Advanced Directives
Saturday, March 21
Emergency Planning, including technology
Saturday, April 18
Where We Age
Saturday, May 16
*Subject to Change
To view our Archive of selected past seminars, please click the RESOURCES menu tab at the top of the screen and select PALS PRESENTATION ARCHIVE.
Past Events
Doing it Richard’s Way
If you’ve been wondering why and how PALS founder, Richard Bass, was able to end his life through California’s End of Life Options Act (CA EOLOA), then this special seminar is for you. PALS panelists covered the key provisions of California’s Medical Aid in Dying law; the criteria Richard had to meet in order for the medication to be prescribed; what it was like for him, family and friends during the weeks before he ingested the medication, and what those who were with him experienced when Richard courageously faced the reality of ending life on his own terms.
This seminar was poignant and very well received by our combined audience. We will be constructing a page on our website dedicated to Richard’s memory and his MAID journey at a later date.
PALS Full Day Trip to the Getty Center
PALS kicked off its 12th season by experiencing two provocative exhibitions celebrating LGBTQ+ art & photography at the Getty Center — Los Angeles:
• $3 Bill: Evidence of Queer Lives
• Queer Lens: A History of Photography
We were so happy to have been able to offer this day trip free of charge to our guests. It was a truly wonderful excursion and we’ll look forward to planning more day trips in the future!
Thank you to our Sponsors who so generously donated for our excursion: Brothers of the Desert, Cathedral City Senior Center, Compassion & Choices, The Center, and Wiefels!
PALS ongoing meetings online
PALS Circle on Zoom
Every Monday at 6PM
PALS Circle is a small, weekly online gathering where people come together to build connection, reduce isolation, and support one another in navigating the aging process and planning ahead. Circles are self‑facilitated, confidential, and welcoming—offering a consistent space for check‑ins, shared stories, and gentle encouragement as each member takes meaningful steps toward preparing for the future.
PALS Death Café
Every FIRST Thursday of the month (Sept. 5, Oct. 3, Nov. 7, etc.)
PALS Death Café offers a safe place for facilitated, open conversation about mortality and planning ahead. There’s no agenda or judgment—just a warm, confidential setting where curiosity is welcome, stories can be shared, and the topic of death becomes a little less isolating. By speaking openly together, participants often find comfort, clarity, and a deeper appreciation for the lives they’re living now.
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